So many walk through life with pain directing their day-to-day.
It can show itself in different ways. It could be something as simple as nerves before every business presentation. A bad habit you can’t seem to kick. Or that tough topic that you just can’t bring up to your spouse because it hurts so much.
Why did I do that?
Why can’t I just be myself?
Why do I always mess up?
You might try harder and harder to be better. But where does that get you?
Don’t let exhaustion or hopelessness get in your way.
At CrossCounsel, we use a simple and powerful method that we’ve developed called MELT to help you find where your pain is really coming from and bring resolution so you can face the future with confidence.
The MELT Process
Memory
You're not just born knowing everything. You learned how to respond to life through your experiences. But often what you learned is distorted. Connecting to those memories is a key part of this process. Many say they can’t remember their childhood but are surprised at what comes back.
Emotion
The “Sticks and Stones” approach to emotions only makes you push down your pain, bury your beliefs, and causes more problems. But feeling the emotions you struggle with is actually a powerful way to connect to those deeply-held wrong beliefs. If you have trouble feeling emotions we can help.
Lie/Belief
Once your heart is feeling the negative emotions and connected to a relevant memory, we help you uncover the wrong belief that's causing your pain. Not understanding how to do this is the most common reason people don't receive freedom from emotional pain.
Truth/Transformation
When your heart is ready to offer to Jesus the wrong beliefs you’re holding, we ask Jesus for His perspective inside those memories. His presence changes the way we have understood ourselves, and peace finally comes to the most painful events we've experienced. That peace carries over into the present.
MELT changes lives
“I’d learned how to abstain from alcohol but not how to overcome my secret battle with the bottle. I believed I was totally unacceptable and that led me to drink. Through CrossCounsel, I found that Jesus was calling me to Himself with open arms. I’m thrilled to report that there has been no desire to drink since I worked with CrossCounsel and learned that I am accepted.”
– Greg
“I don't know what my life would be like without this process! It has deepened my communication with Jesus on so many levels!”
– Lindsey
“Weakness dominated my heart for years. When I opened the door, the Lord showed how much he was protecting me, even in those times. This beautiful, transformational experience set me on a path that I couldn’t have imagined even a year ago.”